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“My hot take on planning is that it is meant for moving the needle forward in your life, not to have complete control of everything all the time.”<\/p>Kaitlyn<\/cite><\/blockquote><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

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Why rigid planning leads to frustration (and what to do instead)<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Life happens and it isn\u2019t always predictable. So it is impossible for every little thing to go according to plan. If you are planning with the expectation of everything working out perfectly, you will likely be disappointed, burnt-out, and feel like you are failing. We need to change that mindset altogether. We need to plan with flexibility and adaptability.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

My hot take on planning is that it is meant for moving the needle forward in your life, not to have complete control of everything all the time. It\u2019s meant to make you aware of your priorities, help you manage your time, decrease anxiety, and help you make progress with your goals. This cannot happen if you start your planning session with the mindset that everything will happen perfectly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

There are plenty of days \/ weeks when I don\u2019t accomplish my full to-do list. But here\u2019s how I see it: If I never made the to-do list and tried to accomplish my tasks, I wouldn\u2019t have completed anything. Whereas making the overly ambitious to-do list led me to completing 5-6 large tasks in my week that I otherwise would never have accomplished.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Planning is a way to hold yourself accountable and take on each day with intention. It helps you prioritize your tasks, instead of just juggling them (read my previous blog post for practical ways to prioritize tasks<\/a>).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The “Pivot, Don\u2019t Quit” method for adjusting goals<\/h2>\n\n\n\n


If you are currently trying to work towards goals, establish healthy habits, or create new routines, but you keep falling off the wagon and quitting, you need to find a way to pivot. Ask yourself \u201cwhy am I not sticking to this plan?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Here are some examples of what could be causing you to quit and how you can pivot instead:<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you want to start working out regularly, but find yourself not even starting, figure out what the barrier is.<\/strong> Is the time of day not working for you? If so, try working out at a different time of day. Do you dread your workout plan? If so, try a different method of movement, one that will be more fun and feel better for you. Maybe you feel too rushed and feel like you don\u2019t have enough time. If that\u2019s the case, make it as easy as possible for yourself to complete the workout. Lay out your clothing in advance, gather any equipment or supplies you need, and have everything ready for your workout so you don\u2019t waste any time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are trying to eat healthier but find yourself choosing fast food, you need to prep for the coming week a full week in advance. By that I mean, gather some recipes you want to try and make a grocery list ahead of time. Get your groceries and then spend some time over the weekend meal-prepping. This way, you already have food prepared that you won\u2019t want to waste because you spent time and money prepping it. You also won\u2019t have to decide on a food option for your meals during the week because it will be prepped for you. I find this super helpful for me during my work week to prep lunches. I already have the food handy, I don\u2019t have to go out and decide what to eat, and I actually get to enjoy some down-time on my lunch break. Plus I am eating a healthy meal that I feel good about.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Preparation is key when working toward any goal. You have to find ways to pivot and make decisions easier for yourself. Before you give up, choose one goal for next week and make a plan of action today. Use your planner to help hold yourself accountable. If you need to prep your workout clothing the night before, literally write this in your planner. It\u2019s nearly impossible to remember these steps if you are relying on your memory alone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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How to balance structure & spontaneity in your schedule<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

I have a full-time day job that requires me to be fairly structured, but I still make my own schedule as far as getting the work done. I never know what the day will look like as far as phone calls, emails, walk-in customers, and order volume. So I like to jot down my top 3-5 priorities that need to get done each day. As long as those tasks are completed, the rest of the workday is pretty flexible and I can jump from task to task as needed. I will also write down tasks for my side job and my brand. For these tasks, I have to create some time blocks in my week and work on them incrementally. I am rarely able to check off these extra tasks the day I write them into my planner. I usually have to migrate them. But as long as I am keeping them top of mind and know when the deadline is, writing them in helps me stay on top of it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re someone who has a super structured job that you don\u2019t need to write down tasks for, use your planner for things like adult \/ life tasks, deadlines, action steps for your goals, etc. You don\u2019t have to stick to your planner 100% of the time. The purpose of the planner is to keep things top-of-mind and help you prepare for things in advance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Here are some practical ways to balance structure and spontaneity:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Start with Anchors, Not Agendas<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Instead of filling your whole day with rigid time blocks, choose 2\u20134 anchor points (ex: \u201cMorning Routine,\u201d \u201cAfter Work Focus Time,\u201d \u201cEvening Wind Down\u201d). Let the time between flow more naturally depending on energy and what\u2019s happening. Structure = support, not suffocation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Use a \u201cSoft Schedule\u201d System<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Try flexible planning: Instead of saying \u201cPost on Instagram at 8 PM,\u201d try \u201cSometime today, write or post 1 thing.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Build out a \u2018Must-Do, Might-Do, and Mood-Based\u2019 task list:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n